That's right, I'm playing Battlefield 3, my player name is shetoldme_com because yes why not promote my site while killing others :-)
So if you're also enjoying Battlefield on PS3, please add me to your contact list, or let's try to play some rounds together, but I don't have a keyboard, so I'm not chatting there, but you can also drop your player name here and I'll add you, we never know maybe we can play later on when we're online together..
Don't worry I'm not a beast killer, my accuracy is less than 10% see my stats here:
The thing is that I'm in Thailand, so the servers I play on are close to me, if you're in the US, I don't know if it's possible to play on the same server also, because my internet connection is not wonderful, so I take servers with smallest ping, probably like you, to reduce lag.
If you have a problem with Battlefield 3 you can ask me because I've had all the problems to start, like getting stuck at "checking player profile data" and having to delete saved game datas, also being unable to log in battlelog.battlefield.com with unhelpful messages.. And also finding where to activate your online pass in order to play online.. I've had it all and solved them all, in fact it's easy once you know, but EA is not helping at all, very confusing process, you need to be a university graduate to play this game online :-)